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This September, hordes of hopelessly devoted students will head off Wtf happened to dating in college university in a new city and misspend the best years of their lives with some undesirable from school.

For a precious few, it works out, but for the majority, going to uni with a first love from home is like forever Wtf happened to dating in college salad with no dressing or getting into Hogwarts and opting for your local grammar Wtf happened to dating in college instead.

We were students once, hence the know-it-all tone. Boyfriends who, with hindsight, had nothing on the corridors of attractive, intelligent, first-time-away-from-home freshers in our halls. Almost invariably, they had split up by Christmas — after the gift exchange. Your first year of university is Wtf happened to dating in college, and it can feel easier in the moment to hold on to a security blanket beau from your school.

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Then when I did see him it was awkward because we were living separate lives. Similarly, Emma Johns, 30, stayed with her boyfriend from her hometown of Aylesbury while doing her undergraduate degree at the London College of Fashion.

Looking back, she says it was pretty tragic.

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Johns says she found it difficult trying to maintain two things at once. As Wtf happened to dating in college actress and filmmaker Greta Gerwig advises a group of first-years in her new film, Mistress America: Very rarely is it meant to be. One guy at our university got up at 6am and Skyped his girlfriend in Australia every day for three years — and now lives Wtf happened to dating in college with her.

We grew up together. We are very lucky. Lily Knight, 26, a student at Drama Centre London says: The first term was the biggest change in situation I have ever encountered and in my exhaustion and delirium, I broke up with my boyfriend. Keep Wtf happened to dating in college with the latest on Guardian Students: Topics Freshers Guardian Students.

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