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Messages You have no messages. Why won t she have sex with me You have no notifications. Nearly 3 months ago, I talked about this issue that I am having in my relationship. I have been in a relationship with this amazing girl for about 2 years and a half now since Feb to be exact. I really care about her and love her and feel happy with her. But then, whenever I feel like having sex with her, she just says no.

The last time we had sex was in Dec I have tried my best and have tried everything to make her have sex with me. For ex, I kiss her passionately, i buy her gifts, take her out for dinners, walks, give her surprises but that's it.

She feels very happy with these things but doesn't feel like having sex. I feel so frustrated all the time because of lack of Why won t she have sex with me and sex. I have also tried touching her but she doesn't allow me to touch anything of hers except for boobs. I try to arouse her by trying to give her an orgasm but she always has reasons such as she isn't shaved or hasn't taken a shower or doesn't smell good or she feels tickled and so I should refrain from touching her vagina.

I feel so rejected and frustrated because I always tell her that I don't care whether she is shaved or not or whether she has taken a shower or not. She is always super clean though and smells really good all the time, so i guess it is just in her head and that makes her say no. Moreover, she never touches me. She feels super shy and weird Why won t she have sex with me touch my dick to arouse me, let alone giving me a head.

I have never demanded a blowjob but I expect her to play along and do something. I have already talked to her like 4 times about how I feel and Why won t she have sex with me last time I talked to her, I told her that I feel like breaking up with her because I feel frustrated. I am always watching porn and satisfying myself while she sleeps next to me.

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Why won t she have sex with me much that I have stopped making efforts for sex because I know she will say no again. I know she isn't seeing anyone else and is not cheating because she is deeply in love with me and wants to be with me forever but then, I cannot see myself without sex for the rest Why won t she have sex with me my life.

The stage has reached where we take showers together to reignite our sex life but I feel nothing. In Why won t she have sex with me, i feel like i would be giving in to a pity sex. Please Why won t she have sex with me what should i do?

I love her a lot and don't feel like leaving her because she is super sweet and all but then I don't know if I can continue with just sweetness. I need some action as well. However, 3 months down the line the situation is the same. But we always came back and talked and it was during one of these talks that something very weird came up.

I asked my gf whether she feels like having sex at all or not. I was direct and asked her if she was masturbating or not. If she is feeling horny, why not be with me and have sex?

Rather, she preferred doing it alone. Now, I am getting frustrated with all this. I am thinking of ending this completely. Please advise whether there is anything else that I can do to save this. Her masturbation thing has really got me thinking and worried of my future. Delete Report Edit Lock Reported. Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters.

She either doesn't like sex, goes some place else to have it or she simply Why won t she have sex with me physically attracted to you. Either Why won t she have sex with me, you are not getting out of the relationship something that is clearly important to you and a natural part of every healthy, romantic relationship. The difference between you and a Why won t she have sex with me that has been single for the past 2 years is that the single man has most likely had more action than you while having more money is his wallet.

I wouldn't be in a romantic relationship with a girl if there was no sex. Relationship without sex is called friendship. Delete Report Edit Why won t she have sex with me Reply. Kingslayer Send a private message. You stayed with her for two years without having sex??

I feel so frustrated all...

George Send a private message. I didn't even bother to read what you wrote but the Why won t she have sex with me is to make her your ex girlfriend. Don't break up with her I Why won t she have sex with me like that with my boyfriend she'll come around I'm sure. What was your situation and what did you do to make it better or return to normalcy?

I was just shy and maybe you should try shaving her down there if that's the problem Lol she probably just think that you might think she smells or something. An I just got over that stuff lol.

But once that faded, it...

But my gf doesn't allow me to touch her down there. Any advances by me are rejected at once. So much so that I don't feel attracted to her now.

Don't even feel like. Was this your situation as well? How long did you guys go without sex? Yeah it was oh I Why won t she have sex with me had Why won t she have sex with me with him even though I was acting weird I just let him have at it.

Id your girlfriend a Virgin by any chance that could be it. No my gf is not virgin. Earlier we used to have sex but then she stopped. So I think Why won t she have sex with me situation and my situation are different. Then she getting dick from some one Why won t she have sex with me, or it might something else or she not attracted to you any more. I'm sorry but you probably should break up with her, cause she probably cheating As long as you give her everything she wants without sex, there is no reason for her to have set.

A relationship is also about fulfilling each other's needs. You fulfill hers, her not so much so. Don't call, text, speak or visit her for a month. At the end of the month she will either decide to share the fulfillment Why won t she have sex with me needs or she Why won t she have sex with me. If she does, you win. If she doesn't, you're already one month into being rid of her.

If you don't have the ball sack contents to do this, it explains why you're in this predicament in the first place. Be the man, get your way some of the time or move on. That's how this works. I broke up with her 2 days ago but she is not ready to leave. She is not taking my words seriously. I am telling her it's done.

I don't want to see u Why won t she have sex with me but she comes home after work and treats it like a normal day. I don't know how to tell her to leave.

I don't want to Why won t she have sex with me at her, so is there a way I can tell her to just leave and understand that this is over? The front door has a lock that she has a key? Change the lock, don't open the door. Had you not waffled every time you told her anything, had you backed up your words with actions, you now telling her to leave would put the fear of homelessness into her Is this post for real?

Seems very trollish I Why won t she have sex with me really 2 year???? Could not leave her because I am in a committed relationship and love her a lot. She also loves me a lot but this is terribly going wrong now. If my woman is not willing to open up for sex, how come I consider her as my girl friend for over two years? If possible I need to have sex with her 5 times per week. I can negotiate till 3 times per week. And the fact that you have discovered that she is masturbating "alone", that sends cold water.

I was thinking at the beginning, she's seeing someone else. Anyways, she will not be yours. Even if she's willing to do it one day, it won't be a good sex experience.

As said here, her body is not attracted to your body, you have to admit it. Otherwise, a body attracted to anyone, you don't even need a finger touch.

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